Fix a potentially-huge sql query

changelog.d/7274.bugfix

@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+Fix a sql query introduced in Synapse 1.12.0 which could cause large amounts of logging to the postgres slow-query log.

synapse/storage/data_stores/main/event_federation.py

@@ -173,19 +173,28 @@ def _get_auth_chain_difference_txn(
             for event_id in initial_events
         }
 
+        # The sorted list of events whose auth chains we should walk.
+        search = []  # type: List[Tuple[int, str]]
+
         # We need to get the depth of the initial events for sorting purposes.
         sql = """
             SELECT depth, event_id FROM events
             WHERE %s
-            ORDER BY depth ASC
         """
-        clause, args = make_in_list_sql_clause(
-            txn.database_engine, "event_id", initial_events
-        )
-        txn.execute(sql % (clause,), args)
+        # the list can be huge, so let's avoid looking them all up in one massive
+        # query.
+        for batch in batch_iter(initial_events, 1000):
+            clause, args = make_in_list_sql_clause(
+                txn.database_engine, "event_id", batch
+            )
+            txn.execute(sql % (clause,), args)
 
-        # The sorted list of events whose auth chains we should walk.
-        search = txn.fetchall()  # type: List[Tuple[int, str]]
+            # I think building a temporary list with fetchall is more efficient than
+            # just `search.extend(txn)`, but this is unconfirmed
+            search.extend(txn.fetchall())
+
+        # sort by depth
+        search.sort()
 
         # Map from event to its auth events
         event_to_auth_events = {}  # type: Dict[str, Set[str]]