extension: fix unstable test TestExtensionConnEvent

[lcwangchao]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #39281

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

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Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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/merge

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Commit hash: 7c271e6

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/run-all-tests

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TiDB MergeCI notify

✅ Well Done! New fixed [2] after this pr merged.

CI Name	Result	Duration	Compare with Parent commit
idc-jenkins-ci/integration-cdc-test	🔴 failed 1, success 38, total 39	19 min	Existing failure
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/mybatis-test	🔴 failed 1, success 0, total 1	11 min	Existing failure
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-ddl-test	🔴 failed 2, success 4, total 6	4 min 22 sec	Existing failure
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/common-test	✅ all 11 tests passed	10 min	Fixed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-common-test	✅ all 17 tests passed	9 min 13 sec	Fixed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/tics-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	5 min 29 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-2	🟢 all 28 tests passed	5 min 2 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-1	🟢 all 26 tests passed	4 min 50 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-compatibility-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	3 min 5 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/plugin-test	🟢 build success, plugin test success	4min	Existing passed