executor, table: fix potienal data race (#55737)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #55737

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #43118

Problem Summary: Use GetColOriginDefaultValueWithoutStrictSQLMode instead of GetColOriginDefaultValue to fix potienal data race.

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Tests

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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