statistics: add for update into write to avoid inaccurate results

[hawkingrei]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #56062

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

do concurrency delete/update operate and exchange partition. The count is right.

• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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None

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 56.3549%. Comparing base (22ef99a) to head (a35ac9d).
Report is 1 commits behind head on master.

Additional details and impacted files

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[hawkingrei]

/retest

[hawkingrei]

/retest

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This pull-request has been approved by: winoros, you06

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[LGTM Timeline notifier]

Timeline:

• 2024-09-13 10:17:34.729676804 +0000 UTC m=+610724.470100738: ☑️ agreed by winoros.
• 2024-09-13 17:06:36.600163525 +0000 UTC m=+635266.340587463: ☑️ agreed by you06.

[hawkingrei]

/cherrypick release-8.1

[ti-chi-bot]

@hawkingrei: new pull request created to branch release-8.1: #56086.

In response to this:

/cherrypick release-8.1

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